Inside Weddings

 

Real Wedding

Ferry Me To Your Heart
Jennifer Pliner & Elay Cohen
September 18, 2005
San Francisco, CA
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Beauty
Stephen Wayne, Joseph Cozza Salon, Make-up
Diana Bortolussi, Kris Keyes Salon,, Hair

Bridal Designer
Domo Adami

Bridal Salon
Alexandra Bridal Salon

Bridesmaids
Tess Roman
BCBG
Tadashi

Cakes
Perfect Endings, Napa

Catering
Paula LeDuc Fine Catering

Consultant
Maxine Andrew, Instead of You!

Entertainment
Unplugged, Innovative Entertainment, ceremony
Double Funk Crunch, Innovative Entertainment, reception

Floral & Event Design
Tapestry Flowers

Flower Girls
Nanoo, San Jose

Formalwear
Brioni

Headpieces & Veils
Jennifer Leigh Bridal

Honeymoon
Protravel International

Invitations
JAX Invitations, San Jose

Jewelry
David Levy Diamonds & Fine Jewels, Los Angeles

Lighting Designer
Phoebus Lighting

Lingerie
Christies

Mother's Gown
Lily Samii

Photographers
Michelle Walker Photography

Registries
Crate & Barrel
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Alessi

Rehearsal Dinner
Waterfront Restaurant

Rentals & Linens
Classic Party Rentals

Shoes
Kate Spade

Venues
Ferry Building, San Francisco, CA

Videographers
Thomas Hughes Video Productions
 
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During a chance meeting at a party, Jennifer Pliner and Elay Cohen found they had a surprising amount in common. From recent visits to Egypt to jobs at the same company, their similarities had them talking all night long. A second revealing tete-a-tete on their first date even caused them to close down the restaurant. "They were putting chairs up on the tables next to us," recalls Jennifer.

On the night they became engaged, Elay welcomed Jennifer home from a two-week business trip with a house full of glowing candles. Unfortunately, instead of feeling the love, Jennifer's initial reaction was fear: "I thought the place was on fire!" Realizing her mistake, Jennifer did her best to be in the moment. "When he got down on one knee to propose I was so nervous that I forgot to say 'yes.'"

Frustrated with their unsuccessful search to find the ideal wedding location, Jennifer and Elay flirted briefly with the idea of eloping. That was until they considered a spot that had been under their noses all along: San Francisco's Ferry Building. The couple frequented its well-known farmers market every Saturday but never realized it was available for private events. "We immediately knew it was where we wanted to get married," says the bride.

But the task of planning a wedding was not something either of their demanding schedules could easily accommodate. Thankfully, the bride's mother (who Jennifer credits as having amazing taste and vision) and wedding consultant Maxine Andrew of Instead of You! came to the rescue. "She's not joking about the name of her company," laughs Jennifer about Andrew's contribution. "I nicknamed her 'The Surrogate Daughter' because she worked so closely with my mother." Soon, save-the-dates in the form of vintage postcards of the Ferry Building were sent to the couple's 200 guests.

Because the location held such personal significance for the couple, the design team was challenged with making the Ferry Building's expansive spaces feel intimate. To compensate for the venue's size, they enclosed the party areas in chestnut silk drapes, employed a warm autumnal color scheme, and arranged ceremony seating "in the round" to create a full embrace of guests around the couple.

Jennifer's parents escorted her down the aisle to her father's special request--Peter Gabriel's "The Book of Love"--and the bride and groom beamed as they stood beneath a striking chuppah made completely of green dendrobium orchids. Joined by all the members of their immediate families, Jennifer and Elay exchanged vows in a traditional Jewish ceremony while standing atop the mosaic-tiled Great Seal of California. "Elay and I both agree that the ceremony was our favorite part of the wedding," asserts Jennifer.

But with the help of an innovative menu and magical decor, the overall effect of the reception was dazzling. Tables dressed in chocolate linens featured clever centerpieces that, while voluminous enough to accommodate the proportions of the grand hall, were tall enough to allow for the flow of conversation. Curved iron stands mimicking the building's trussed ceiling supported three interwoven arrangements of black magic roses, copper hydrangea, chocolate cosmos, dahlias, and vivid fall foliage. Dangling orange orchids danced just above a collection of persimmon colored candles, which caused each table to glow with warmth.

Not that additional warmth was necessary, as the hall was already filled with palpable affection. Jennifer surprised her husband with a poem written just for him, and his father sang "I Left My Elay in San Francisco" with the band. To have everyone they loved gathered in a place that had played such an important role in their relationship was an amazing experience for the newlyweds. In fact, the couple and its guests had spent the day before the wedding at the Ferry Building, enjoying the market. As Jennifer explains, "It is an extremely personal space for us, but since [our guests] were able to witness its incredible transformation for our wedding, we feel it made the space personal for everyone."